If Your Wife is a Cheat

If Your Wife is a Cheat

You said for richer or for poorer. You said in sickness and in health. You said till death do us part. Marriage is as serious as a relationship gets. Which is why unfaithfulness can be severely damaging.

When you suspect your wife is involved with another man, you start looking for telltale signs of cheating. You begin to take note of changes in her attitude and activities.

What are some of the clues that can help you determine whether or not your wife is cheating on you?

Noting some changes in your wife's appearance or behavior do not necessarily mean that she is having an affair. Innocent demeanor may sometimes be construed as suspicious if you are more likely to think the worst about her. Obvious cheating signs may be brushed aside if you trust and believe in everything that your spouse tells you.

You need to carefully observe, investigate and gather your facts before you confront your spouse about her infidelity. After all, it will still make a negative impact in your relationship if you accuse her of something she has not done.

Here are some of the things that will likely help you determine if your wife is being unfaithful to you.

1. Your wife no longer wears her wedding ring, especially when she goes out.

2. She has been doing more overtime work lately or spends more time going out with friends.

3. She puts more importance on how she looks and spends more on sexy outfits and beauty products.

4. She no longer confides in you like she used to and she prefers to talk and seek advice from her friends.

5. Your wife does not mind you spending more time with your buddies or in front of the television when it used to irritate her.

6. She has a certain "glow" in her and there seems to be lightness in her steps.

7. She has less interest in making love with you. When she does have sex with you, she likes to try on new techniques.

8. You notice some bruises and or scratches on her back and neck that were not caused by you.

9. Your wife got herself a new mobile phone and she did not voluntarily tell you about it. She refrains from answering her phone whenever you are around.

10. She created a new email account or maybe started deleting mails from her inbox when they used to just accumulate. She is also spending more time in front of the computer especially when you are already in bed. She may also have changed her passwords.

11. You already had a vasectomy and yet you see contraceptive pills in her purse or medicine cabinet.

12. You have a nagging feeling that something really wrong is going on.

There are lots of ways to find out if your wife is unfaithful to you. There are guides, like How to "Catch a Cheating Wife" Now, that you can read to help you know more about the signs of cheating as well as gadgets and computer software that can monitor your wife's activities. Hiring a private investigator is also a possibility.

Marriage is supposed to be built on trust. It is not just about you trusting your wife but also about your wife trusting you. Not all suspicions are valid and spying on your spouse can raise some ethical issues. Tread gently when you suspect infidelity and carefully decide on what to do.


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